A tale of two definitions: what is polyamory…

Once upon a time, for this is how all good stories start, there were two definitions in the a wood. On the one side is a definition of a relationship and on the other a definition of an individual.

  1. Polyamory/us: a relationship in which there are multiple concurrent loving relationships.
  2. Polyamory/us: a person with is the ability/capacity to love more than one person simultaneously

On the surface this very well appears like two parallel paths to the same place. But they diverge subtly, like a fork in…